Years ago our family went on a vacation that required us to drive an entire day. Our children were elementary school ages and we knew this would be challenging for them. I had this idea that I would make maps for everyone with destination markers; when we reached each marker everyone got a gift. The prizes were snacks, interacting toys, and music; on the way home they got gifts too. Along the way I read aloud a book about an exciting missionary adventure which gave way to many wonder conversations. And of course, the words, “Are we there yet” were ever present!
This last week our son got married and God brought that amazing trip to my mind while worshiping Him the morning before the wedding. I felt the Lord was saying that raising children was very much like a long journey and the destination markers are memories we hold onto. However the journey from A to Z is not without struggles or difficulties; the road brings detours, flat tires, engine problems; we know where we want to go but life is filled with uncertainty. I was reminded that each marker represented years of being on our knees before our heavenly Father. There were times I was so tired I didn’t think I could do this; there were times I was so brokenhearted I questioned God; and I found myself saying those words, “Are we there yet?”, and I would hear God saying:
“Therefore, my dear DaNetta, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.” 1 Corinthians 15:58
We have passed yet another destination marker in our son’s life and I am so thankful we pressed in and chose to keep our eyes on God’s faithfulness. I look forward to the many markers on the road ahead of us now and honestly I am still learning to enjoy the journey despite the trials and detours. I know one day when I reach my final destination I will rejoice in my Father’s arms; grateful for His miraculous works in our lives. I still find myself in the difficult times occasionally saying, “Are we there yet?” However I know deep in the very center of my mother’s heart that God is saying, “At the perfect time, my sweet daughter, you will be there and until then enjoy the journey!”
From my heart to yours,
DaNetta
Beautifully written DaNetta.
As the mother of a newly married daughter, amen and Thank you.
A great analogy.
Thanks DaNetta
What a sweet illustration.
So good DaNetta!!!!